[文化] 男友吃太少？中国女友十大抱怨（双语）

　　和外国人交往的中国女孩们经常抱怨她们不满的各种问题——这些问题的主要源于文化差异和缺乏理解。巴基斯坦的一位中国女婿给我们列出了他眼中中国女友的十大抱怨。让我们一起看看，你中枪了没?

　　Chinese women who are dating non-Chinese guys often express various issues which displease them – and the issues are mostly due to cultural differences and a lack of understanding. One of our readers from Pakistan sent us a list of what he considers the ten most common complaints of Chinese girlfriends.

　　1. 你没有帮我拎包包！

　　You don't carry my handbag!

　　大多数外国男友认为，手里拿着女朋友的手提包是和男子气概完全背道而驰的行为。但对中国女孩来说，这是一个很普遍的需求。中国女孩的包包里通常不会塞什么过于实用的东西，但她们必须有个包。然而外国男友并不享受帮他们的女友拎包。

　　Most foreign boyfriends believe that carrying a handbag of a girlfriend is basically the opposite of manliness. But this is a very common demand of Chinese girlfriends. Chinese girls usually carry useless and unnecessary stuff in their bags and the reason is only because they want to have a bag. And foreign boyfriends don't like to carry their handbag.

　　2. 你没有每天给我打三次电话（发信息）！

　　You don't text or call me three times a day!

　　中国女友通常需要你在白天与她们保持联系，并且通过每天给她们打至少两三次电话（发信息）来表示对她们的关心在意。这点是不会改变的——所以如果你想和中国女孩发展一段长久的恋情，那么你必须接受这种方式。

　　Chinese girlfriends usually demand that you stay in contact with them during the day and show that you care for them by calling or sending them text messages at least two or three times a day. This will not change - so you need to adopt this habit if you wish to have a long-term relationship.、

　　3.你没有经常陪我！

　　You don't meet me often!

　　如果你和你的女友没有常常见面或者约会，那么她就会说你非常自我。如果没有做她们想要的事，她们就会这样抱怨。然而对于外国人来说，这个词似乎并没那么严重，他们认为自我是很正常的一件事——但对中国女孩来说，可不是这么回事了。

　　If you don't visit or meet your girlfriend often she will call you selfish and this is a word Chinese girls use if you don't do something they want. However, for foreigners this word does not seem so strong and they consider it quite normal to be called selfish - but for Chinese this is not the case.

　　4. 不要总和你的“狐朋狗友”混在一起！

　　Give less time to your friends!

　　有时，中国女孩会抱怨她们不喜欢你的朋友，但这并不完全是真的︰她们只是想让男友想少花时间和朋友在一起而多点时间和她们在一起。她们希望你更多的时间陪伴女友，而不是出去和朋友们混在一起。

　　Sometimes, Chinese girls will complain that they don't like your friends, but this is not exactly true: They just want the guy to spend less time with his friends and more with them. They want you to spend more time with your girlfriend instead of hanging out and meeting your friends.

　　5. 为什么你不带我去酒吧？

　　Why don't you take me to the bar?

　　她会经常抱怨你去酒吧时没有带她，并且指责各种各样不带她的原因。她会跟你说她不喜欢在酒吧时那个一直在你身边的女孩。

　　She will often complain that you don't take her when you go out to a bar and she will accuse you of not taking her because of various reasons. She will tell you that you don't like her attitude in the club as she makes you stay by her side the whole time.

　　6. 毫无时尚感

　　No sense of fashion

　　她想让你穿她所喜欢的衣服，成为她所喜欢的样子。中国服饰的时尚感和其他国家有很多区别，很难把握，所以准备好哪天要听到这样的抱怨吧。

　　She wants you to dress like she wants you to dress and she wants you to look like she wants you to look. Chinese dress sense is very different to other countries and it's quite difficult to follow, so get ready to face such complaints sooner or later.

　　7. 你不了解中国文化

　　You don't know Chinese culture

　　你会经常从你的中国女友那儿听到这句抱怨——你应该多了解并遵循些中国文化。她总是会要求你遵循她的文化而不是你自己的文化。

　　You will hear this sentence very often from your Chinese girlfriend - that you should learn more about Chinese culture and start following it. She will always demand that you follow her culture and not so much your own culture.

　　8. 多吃点!

　　Eat more!

　　这句话听起来有些奇怪，但这是千真万确的︰一个中国女朋友会要求你多吃点从而变得”更健康“。吃的得越多越健康——这是一句中国的老话。中国女友们对这句话深信不疑，也以此来要求他们的男朋友。

　　It sounds weird but it's true: A Chinese girlfriend will suggest that you eat more and "get healthier". The more you eat the healthier you will be - this is a Chinese saying and they truly follow it and try it on their boyfriends.

　　9. 少吃点！

　　Eat less!

　　终于有一天，当你开始吃得更多，你就会被女友抱怨吃的太多。你的中国女友会开始说，你应该少吃点，这样你才会更健康。这时，之前提到的中国老话和观念突然就变了。

　　Sooner or later you will start eating more and another complaint you will get is that you eat so much. Your Chinese girlfriend will start saying that you should eat less and this will be good for your health. Suddenly, the above-mentioned Chinese saying and perception will change.

　　10. 逛街

　　Shopping

　　最后，中国女友会抱怨你，你没有陪她去逛街。没错！她是对的——经常带她去逛街吧。有时她只是想要和你一起出去逛逛，即使只是看看什么都不买，有时她会想让你为她花一些钱。逛街以后，她就会这样说︰我原来以为你很自我，但现在看来你并不是这样。

　　Last but not least，Chinese girlfriends will complain to you that you do not take her shopping. Yes! She is right - take her shopping often，even window shopping. She wants to hang out with you. And sometimes she just wants you to spend your money on her. Soon after the shopping trip, she will say something like: I thought you are selfish but you are not.

　　English Source: China Daily

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